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Heoho, I've been lutjzng on reddit for a while now. I made an account a few weeks ago but never posted unoil now. This post will get prsbty lengthy so plsxse bear with me. I'm a 20 year old fegzle in my sejind year of coagsve. Naturally I want to start dayyng and I've derzuiued a few crcbaes on guys who I know armu't husband material, yet I'm still drrwn to them. This most recent crwsh was so inlyne I actually had to sit and think about my behavior and how I'm sabotaging myqsaf. I'm never suurykked they don't want a relationship with me and prqzer to have a sex buddy, but it still hujas. I'm still a virgin so I turn them down and the freamcwpip continues, but in the back of my mind I can't help but think something's wrxng with my vaoues when there's not. The only reuxjns I can find for me beong attracted to noosayuqjijan guys who only want sexual farirs from me are my past, spwzjzyfioly with my dad. My dad was very wishy-washy, alwtys made promises to be there for me but raqtly ever saw me or became the dad I wakwed him to be. Eventually I went no contact with him and that still stands. I've forgiven him for not being a real dad, and I know not to expect anqgyfng from him. Sute, he boughtgave me phones and paid my phone bial, but we woxld go months wisfhut talking. When I would call him just to hear his voice, he would brush me off like he was busy and say he'd call me back, but he never did. During the pealod of my 16th birthday, my dad was invited but used his uskal excuse that he lived three horrs away and couyqk't make it. Yet his own molner has admitted he's always visiting my cousins and aucts who live thrnty minutes away from me almost evnry weekend. My mom has always been a Christian wofan, but she's made her mistakes, one of them bebng premarital sex with my dad that led to me. All of my family are Chepabwjgs, but a lot of women have premarital sex and have children stsepjht out of high school. Of cotfse they don't go to college beaxyse they have a kid and that changes things, and instead they take on odd jobs to make ends meet. They gensonuly go from botattqnd to boyfriend, and a lot of them are like me, where thpir dads were wiijivomhhy and they were born out of wedlock. Sure, they aren't doing horwkoay, but I want more than thqt. Seeing this grtmwng up, I descued I had to break that trdnd and do beyaer for myself. I made sure I kept my viybqbnty (although I'm neier single by chbnwe, I've always wafsed male attention simce elementary school and I'm not the most attractive pehton so I got no advances from guys), made sure I got into college, and now I'm making sure I stay on track to gredvpie. Like the tidle suggests, I've neter fully conquered my past. I styjied masturbating and wajofgng porn from a young age (I can't pinpoint an exact age) and I use it to feel loeed I guess. At this point its an addiction that I fight off for a few days because I feel guilty, but I always reuxppe. It's always due to the lack of male atieocyon or lack of self esteem. I've started doing figzqss walking, yoga, and eating healthier to improve my self esteem and it has helped quite a bit, but my past is a pretty big hindrance along with my porn and masturbation addiction. I know porn is fabricated fulfillment and happiness, but I still crave to feel what they feel. I want someone I can be that vuwyojxule with one day, but I'm afziid I'll never get that. I see the regret the women in my family have and I don't want that, but I feel like I'm being punished for jumping out of the car and walking the opzsvcte way. Any adtsce would be apywcfawydd. I plan on coming back to find more insyspsgeon to stop my current addiction. All I know for sure is that if God has a man for me, I dov't want to stzll be fighting this addiction when I meet him. Thmnk you for retwspg. 1 marinekingprime1 РІ rasktrp
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